Monthly Archives: April 2011

Will Divorce Ruin your Retirement Plans?

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Is your divorce going to postpone your retirement? Are you going to have to give up your dreams of relaxation or travel?

In College Station and Houston, stalled retirement plans are common in the list of divorce financial concerns. Your spouse is trying to get all the IRAs. Your spouse won’t share the pension. Even if you could get your spouse to listen to you and agree to share, half the nest egg might not be enough for your retirement.

You can use an retirement shortfall calculator to project when you will be able to retire. (You can also find these calculator links on my blog under Website Links.)

Tips for using the calculator:

  • Before you start popping numbers in the boxes, first read the “Definitions”. They really do matter.
  • Rates of return – choosing the number for this box is like using a crystal ball. I recommend that you fill in all the other boxes first and then work on this one. First put in 2% and see the result. Then put in 4% and see how the result changes. Take it up to 8%. It looks better there, doesn’t it? Actually getting your estimated rate of return in real life is a whole different matter.
  • Federal tax rate – this is your “marginal” tax rate, the rate of tax on your highest taxed dollar. Calculate that with a Marginal Tax Rate Calculator.
  • Number of years in retirement – assume you will live 10 years longer than the age of your longest living parent or grandparent or age 95.
  • Expected inflation rate – use 3.0% or use the default of 3.1%.

 

Warning:  Many people avoid thinking about retirement. Don’t do that. We see lots of articles about inadequate retirement savings in many households. Divorce can make this situation worse. Reverse that trend by educating yourself now.

 

Collaborative Divorce: Most Common Mistake Men Make

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It’s the “I don’t need to do that” guy thing. If you have been making more money than your wife, you are particularly prone to this mistake.

In collaborative divorces in College Station and Houston, we look at post divorce cash needs to help us see options for splitting investments, property, etc. Wives are fine with listing their expenses. They want to show their husbands that their needs are authentic and accurate. These husbands are glad to see that I am going to show their wives – in black and white – that they can’t keep up the spending level.

You guys don’t feel you need to do a budget. You know how much you make. Your personal spending needs are modest. She’s the one who has been spending all the money. She needs the budgeting, not you.

Bingo. There’s the mistake. You need to let her see your living expenses. They may be modest, but they are not as modest as you think. In my experience, people consistently and reliably underestimate their expenses by at least 50%, many times 100%.

I worked with a couple a few years ago. The husband wanted me to work with his wife on her expenses. He told his attorney we didn’t need to look at his expenses. He said he made enough money that he was going to be just fine. He said he had modest expenses. We got well into the collaborative divorce process when he started to put his own numbers on a spreadsheet. He stayed awake that night thinking that he was offering a settlement he couldn’t afford.

The next morning, I showed him that he wasn’t worried enough. He was underestimating his living expenses. The divorce went on pause while I nailed down his true expenses. He backed off his settlement offer. You can imagine how well that went over with his wife and her attorney.  After all, he had been saying for months that his expenses were modest. His mistake and the aftermath of it slowed down that divorce by about three months.

Guys, you need to show your living expenses early in the collaborative divorce process. You need to show, in black and white, that you are not an endlessly deep pocket. Listing accurate living expense is time consuming and boring. If you don’t want to do it yourself, let your financial neutral do it. Be accurate. Be honest. Don’t guess.

 

Divorce Distractions Cost Real Money

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Divorce is a distracting process. You have your own life to keep up. If you have children, you are spending extra time helping them deal with your divorce. If you are in a litigated divorce, you are not in control of your time. If you are in a collaborative divorce, you still have to get to meetings and gather information. If you have friends, you are spending additional time grousing with them about your divorce, your attorney, your kids and your soon-to-be-ex. With these distractions, any normal person can miss a payment.

Recently, Wall Street Journal Getting Going columnist, Karen Blumenthal, wrote an informative column, How to Wreck Your Credit Score. Karen notes, “The severe consequences underscore that you shouldn’t shrug off even an accidentally missed [mortgage] payment… Being 30 days late on a house payment – even if it is an accident – can knock 100 points off a pristine 780 credit score, moving you from qualifying for the very best interest rates to the edge of subprime territory.”

So, how bad can that be? She explains that if you have a 620 score, you would pay almost 12% on a four-year $25,000 care loan. If you have a 780 score, you would pay 5% on that same loan. The difference is almost $4,000 over the four-year loan. I’m sure you can think of something better to do with $4,000.

Where would you rather spend $4,000?

 

4 Tips to Estimate Your Divorce Living Expenses

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These are a few more tips to help you get an accurate budget. I use these with my College Station and Houston clients. The basic steps are in my last blog post.

#1 If your bank and credit card statements include expenses for people who won’t be in your household next year, such as soon-to-be-ex-spouses, you need to avoid listing those expenses. Either estimate the costs that are only yours or tag the ones you know are not yours and cross them off.

#2 How do you estimate only yours when the costs on the statements are for both of you? Example:  Look at your monthly grocery costs. Think about who eats at home the most. If there are just two of you, allocate more than 50% of the grocery bill to that person. If there are more than two of you, estimate what percentage each person consumes. Subtract out the amount that is for the person who will not be in your future household. Do this for all expenses.

#3 If you think you are going to live in a different place after your divorce, use new information for certain household expenses. Use your current housing expenses as a springboard to your estimated future expenses. Example: Your cable internet bill may not change, but your yard care costs could.

#4 If you know you are going to move but you don’t know where yet, do some research and, aackk!, guess a little.  Find homes or apartments that look like a possible option for you. Ask the landlord for the annual utility costs. Find people who live in similar places and ask them about their annual lawn care costs.

I have created a good spreadsheet for budgeting. If you want a copy, send me an email to stewart@TexasDivorceCPA.com with the words “Budget Spreadsheet” in the subject line. I’ll send you one – free.

Six Tips to Figure Out Your Cash Needs in Divorce

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As a divorce CPA in College Station and Houston, I often help clients estimate their cash flow needs for their new normal life after divorce. When I do this, it is accurate. (But, of course, you would expect that from a CPA!) When they create their own budget, it is often wrong.

Here are some tips to correctly figure out your cash flow needs whether during or after your divorce or even if you are not getting a divorce.

#1 Create a list of 12 months of expenses. You can get the number for monthly expenses by dividing that by 12. Always start with a whole year to capture everything.

#2  Your list needs to include expenses that repeat every month, items that repeat only a few times a year, items that occur only once a year and  items that occur only once every few years.

#3  Get copies an entire year’s worth of all your bank statements and credit cards. Use every item to add up your expenses in various categories.  This is a long and tedious task. But it results in the most accurate information.

#4  If tip #3 made you shout “No Way!” then take the dangerous short cut and use 3 months of statements. But know your risks. You will multiply your monthly expenses by 4 to get a full year. Watch out for those twice a year expenses that fall into those 3 months you chose. Don’t multiply them by 4. I had a client who did that and her budget ended up way, way too high.

#5  If you use less than 12 months of data, comb through your statements and find the expenses that did not fall into those 3 months you chose. Add those missing costs in.

#6  Remember to budget an amount for monthly savings. Stuff breaks, stuff falls apart. You will need that savings to avoid charging car repairs on your credit cards.

I have created a good spreadsheet for this exercise. If you want a copy, send me an email with the words “Budget Spreadsheet” in the subject line. I’ll send you one – free.

How to Avoid Surprise Divorce Attorney Costs

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My colleague, Faith Wilson, MA, LPC (Licensed Professional Counselor) is a therapist who sees a ton of people who are thinking about divorce. Faith covers the emotional struggle while I cover the divorce financial advice. We both work in Houston and Bryan / College Station.

Faith’s clients ask her for names of divorce attorneys. She only gives them names of attorneys she knows and trusts. She explains that divorce costs depend upon the individual circumstances and there is no way to predict the eventual cost.  So, what do some of these clients do? They ignore her advice and go out and hire the cheapest attorney they can find.

In their next therapy session, they tell Faith, “Hey! I found a divorce lawyer who says it’s only going to cost me $1,500.” Seems these clients paid a $1,500 retainer and either weren’t listening closely enough to the divorce attorney or were told that their initial retainer will cover the entire divorce cost.

Fast-forward some months. In their therapy session they complain to Faith, “Hey! My divorce lawyer says I have to pay more money!” Surprise. Surprise.

Don’t ever think that your initial retainer will cover the entire cost of your divorce. If it does, you are reeeeally lucky or you paid a huge retainer.

What to do?  Interview two or three divorce lawyers before hiring one. Listen carefully to the divorce attorney you are interviewing. Ask what the total fees will be.  The honest answer is, “it depends.” Then ask about typical things that will cost you to have to pay more during your divorce. Find out what situations or actions might cause these things to happen.

Seek out attorneys who will clearly explain how divorce attorney fees work. Read their website and ask questions.  This is one of the first opportunities you will have in your divorce process to expand your financial knowledge.